That's just it though cj, he DOES understand the way you reacted and that's why he's acting this way toward you now... Please don't feel as though you have to prove anything to him, I think it's clear that he feels some responsibility in it (really, though, even if you had managed to call him it would not have changed your situation much)... Again I'm sure he does feel badly and wants to prevent it in the future. You two need to be a team now and focus on how better to protect yourselves/one another/your home in the future.
How would I have reacted at the moment? Probably the same way. I would have cried and been angry at him even if it wasn't his fault, because a lot of us women (myself included) have sort of an innate trust in our chosen man to protect us physically from harm. Maybe that is what you are feeling right now.
Don't isolate yourself, be a couple with him, tell him how you're feeling and that you want to get over it WITH him.
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Please understand that I don't blame my husband for the fact that a total stranger broke into our house and tied me up in
You reaction at the time WAS justifiable.
That's just it though cj, he DOES understand the way you reacted and that's why he's acting this way toward you now... Please don't feel as though you have to prove anything to him, I think it's clear that he feels some responsibility in it (really, though, even if you had managed to call him it would not have changed your situation much)... Again I'm sure he does feel badly and wants to prevent it in the future. You two need to be a team now and focus on how better to protect yourselves/one another/your home in the future.
How would I have reacted at the moment? Probably the same way. I would have cried and been angry at him even if it wasn't his fault, because a lot of us women (myself included) have sort of an innate trust in our chosen man to protect us physically from harm. Maybe that is what you are feeling right now.
Don't isolate yourself, be a couple with him, tell him how you're feeling and that you want to get over it WITH him.
Wow, you were lucky on several counts.
It is truly unfortunate as to what happened.
If the situation was reversed...how would you have handled it?
>>Or..maybe he should have called the operator to see if something was wrong with the phone line.
Should'ves and Could'ves are hindsight, often used to shift blame and guilt to another person for not doing something in a very exact way.
This has been going on for a few weeks -
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