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Still Living with Ex
| Sun, 07-25-2004 - 2:19pm |
My ex fiancee and I split up about a month ago. I stayed with my mother for about a week and he had this grand idea to be "roommates" and for me to come back and use the spare bedroom. He is the one who ended the relationship after over 2 years. He said he is not in love with me anymore and that its really over this time. I sleep in the spare bedroom and have all my clothes there but we still have sex and do things together. we go out to dinner, to movies, to hang out with mutual friends. My girlfriend even commented that to the outside world, you would never know we were split up. I have a 5 yr old son who lives with his dad but did live with us in the beginning. My son has always referred to my ex as Daddy and last weekend, we went to a Texas Rangers game and everything was as it was before. When I told my ex that i was going to tell my son we were split up, he became very angry with me and said he didnt need to know. I'm so confused and miserable because he constantly tells me its over and that its "his" time and i just dont know what to believe. I try to have hope that things will work out because I am still in the home but everytime we argue, he throws in my face that its "his" home now, although everything we have i own. If i move out, he will have nothing and I partly wonder if thats the reason I'm here. I need some help.....

Get out and find someone who deserves you and all you have to offer. Good luck to you!
Jennifer
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Carrie
This is a disturbing, unhealthy situation. Get out of there as soon as you can. You are living in the middle of "mixed messages" and going along with it. If you are broken up, you are broken up. There is no reason at all why you should still be there, let alone going out with him, having sex, etc. You are giving him everything he wants and letting him throw you out at the same time. It's ridiculous. You will never be able to get closure and move on to build something healthy in your life this way. You cannot even face the truth of the situation while still lviing like this. Number one, get out. Number two, cut contact with him. Let him realize that what you have is over.
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