strip clubs , what realy happens ????
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strip clubs , what realy happens ????
| Tue, 03-16-2004 - 2:32pm |
JUST GOT DONE READING THE MESSAGE FROM SWEETNOPICHICK ON STRIP CLUBS
IVE ALWAYS WONDERED WHAT REALY GOES ON IN THEM SINCE IVE NEVER BEEN TO ONE HAVE JUST HEARD ABOUT THEM .MY HUSBAND WHOM I DONT APPROVE OF GOING WENT ONE TIME WITH HIS FRIENDS AND HE TOLD ME THAT UNLESS U PAY FOR LAP DANCES THEY WILL JUST COME UP TO U AND ASK U IF UD LIKE TO TIP THEM IF U DO THEN OF COURSE THEY KEEP COMING BACK FOR MORE AND IF U DONT THEN THEY DONT COME BACK AROUND TO UR TABLE BUT I OVER ALL THINK THAT IT IS CHEATING AND TOLD MY HUSBAND THAT IF HE EVER GOES BACK TO ONE THAT I WOULD REALY CONSIDER LEAVING HIM. FOR THE FACT THAT HE IS LOOKING AT OTHER NAKED WOMEN AND MOST OF ALL I DO THINK MAYBE IM THIS WAY BECAUSE IM VERY INSECURE . HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND WHY I DISAGREE HE SAYS THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THOSE PLACES AND I SHOULD LET HIM GO. I HAVE 2 BROTHERS WHO GO EVERY NOW AND THEN & THEY WILL BRING THE STRIPPERS HOME . I EVEN TOLD MY HUSBAND ONCE THAT I WUD CONSIDER HIM GOING BUT ONLY IF I CUD GO WITH HIM AND IF I DIDNT SEE ANYTHING WRONG THEN MAYBE I WUD LET HIM GO WITH HIS FRIENDS , WELL HE DIDNT WANT TO DO THAT SO MY THEN HE LEFT ME WONDERING WHY HE REALY DIDNT WANT TO TAKE ME WITH HIM I WAS GONNA EVEN CONSIDER HIM GOING . SO I DONT KNOW IM JUST CURIOUS IF THEY RUB THERE BOOBS ON U AND SO FORTH
IVE ALWAYS WONDERED WHAT REALY GOES ON IN THEM SINCE IVE NEVER BEEN TO ONE HAVE JUST HEARD ABOUT THEM .MY HUSBAND WHOM I DONT APPROVE OF GOING WENT ONE TIME WITH HIS FRIENDS AND HE TOLD ME THAT UNLESS U PAY FOR LAP DANCES THEY WILL JUST COME UP TO U AND ASK U IF UD LIKE TO TIP THEM IF U DO THEN OF COURSE THEY KEEP COMING BACK FOR MORE AND IF U DONT THEN THEY DONT COME BACK AROUND TO UR TABLE BUT I OVER ALL THINK THAT IT IS CHEATING AND TOLD MY HUSBAND THAT IF HE EVER GOES BACK TO ONE THAT I WOULD REALY CONSIDER LEAVING HIM. FOR THE FACT THAT HE IS LOOKING AT OTHER NAKED WOMEN AND MOST OF ALL I DO THINK MAYBE IM THIS WAY BECAUSE IM VERY INSECURE . HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND WHY I DISAGREE HE SAYS THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THOSE PLACES AND I SHOULD LET HIM GO. I HAVE 2 BROTHERS WHO GO EVERY NOW AND THEN & THEY WILL BRING THE STRIPPERS HOME . I EVEN TOLD MY HUSBAND ONCE THAT I WUD CONSIDER HIM GOING BUT ONLY IF I CUD GO WITH HIM AND IF I DIDNT SEE ANYTHING WRONG THEN MAYBE I WUD LET HIM GO WITH HIS FRIENDS , WELL HE DIDNT WANT TO DO THAT SO MY THEN HE LEFT ME WONDERING WHY HE REALY DIDNT WANT TO TAKE ME WITH HIM I WAS GONNA EVEN CONSIDER HIM GOING . SO I DONT KNOW IM JUST CURIOUS IF THEY RUB THERE BOOBS ON U AND SO FORTH

- Strippers perform on stages with customers being at least 6 to 10 feet away in most cases.
- Strippers do not walk around the crowd naked - they put some clothes on before hand. Yes they are very skimpy but private parts are covered.
- Men are not allowed to touch - period - no questions asked - otherwise you will be tossed out by the bouncers very quickly.
- There are table dances in which you pay some amount of money for the stripper to do a 5 minute show directly in front of you. Again men are not allowed to touch. This is where strippers earn the majority of their money. Stippers will try to "chat you up" to get you to PAY for a table dance.
- Where I live Lap Dances are banned so I have never seen one yet alone had one.
- I have been to a couple of places where if there is alcohol served then the stripper must keep her g-string on. It seems like each area has its own laws or rules. I'd suggest you get informed about the laws in your specific area and not rely on embellished stories.
- I have talked to women that have been in both male & female clubs. Every single one of them has stated that male strip shows and the women who attend are far more raunchy than any female strip club. You "hear" stories of boob flashing, panties being thrown at the strippers and whipped cream being sucked off a stripper's private parts during shows. Then again, these stories could easily be embellished too.
Are you going to start censoring the movies you watch given your insecurities? Is there too much skin in the American Pie movie series for you?
You won't always get what you want, but you will get what you negotiate. Consider a look but don't touch compromise.