STRIP CLUBS - Yay or nay when you're in a relationship?
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|Tue, 11-06-2012 - 10:49am|
Hey, everyone. I'm curious to know how both the men and women out there feel about this. I've been with my BF for 4 months. Our relationship was very sexual from the beginning and I actually made it a point to keep it only on that level for a while because i didn't want a serious relationship. But time has passed and emotions can't be denied so here he is telling me he loves me and here I am realizing I think I feel the same. We really enjoy our time together, etc. BUT I have never been someone who would condone my BF going to strip clubs unless for a bachelor party. This guy has been going to them for years with one friend in particular and even dated and lived with a stripper for a couple of years just prior to our relationship. I don't judge, I don't really care about his past - everybody has one. However, now I'm wondering if I should be offended that he still goes occasionally, like twice a month. I've never asked him to stop and I don't think he has any intention of doing so. Ladies, how would you feel about this? And guys, why would you continue going to strip clubs if you're having great sex with a hot girl whom you claim to love? FYI, we're both intensely sexual people, possibly more than most and I don't feel insecure about this just a little confused as to whether I'm not seeing the big picture because this is a completely alien experience for me. Your comments and opinions are greatly appreciated.