such a mess..

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Registered: 09-21-2005
such a mess..
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Wed, 11-21-2007 - 2:28am
i really don't know what to do.
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 10:04am

Hon... I'm sorry because this advice won't fix your relationship... But what I heard when I read your post was "this poor girl hasn't spent nearly enough time being single"

You need to be on your own to really get to know yourself. Men are great and can be a great addition but often a relationship with a man detracts from the relationship we have with ourselves. You spent a long time in an abusive relationship with a guy who was wrong for you and hurt you... That's not easy to recover from. It takes time. "Find another man" is not the answer; I really think you need time by yourself to really get over the guilt and insecurity.

The perfect guy is not perfect for YOU unless you're in the right frame of mind and point in life where you're ready for it.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 1:56pm

Welcome back to the board confusedgirl_20,


Here's your previous posts for your reveiw and for anyone that wants to catch up with your story:


do i really want to be with him?


sad and confused


Please help-is this normal?


what can i do?


so confused-boyfriend is angry


While you may feel

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 4:40pm

'but sometimes i just kind of want to break up with him.