suggestions, please?

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Registered: 07-28-2007
suggestions, please?
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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 1:21am

Ok so, I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. We've been through a lot. Stupidly, I nearly cheated on him over a year ago and we are still recovering from that. He also hasn't been the perfect angel, but nothing compared to what I did. We've worked things out and have been great for the past year. We are completely honest and open about everything and have nothing to hide. But what's bugging me lately is that everytime I pick up his phone just to fidget with it, he freaks out and accuses me of accusing him and snatches it out of my hands. He just got a new job with a very hectic schedule and he has to be there way earlier than his other job, and is getting really picky about his bed time. I picked up his phone tonight and the same thing happened and now he's extremely mad at me for getting him all wired late at night. I feel selfish because I kept him up so late, but the whole phone thing just bugs me. I don't want to think he's hiding something from me, but it's so hard not to.

Should I confront him?

I mean, I've told him how I feel about him snatching the phone from me everytime, but he insists that he has nothing to hide. I'm afraid that if I say something again, he'll blow up in my face.

What should I do???

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 2:28am

Welcome to the board breb123,


It seems to me that his reaction is a little over the top.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 7:45am
I'd stop fidgeting with his phone.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 10:29am

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He accused YOU for HIS freakout? Does he normally blame you for his moods and reactions?

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 1:10pm
He does seem like he is hiding something. However, I would just leave his phone alone for a while. You know it upsets him, so don't mess with it for a while.
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