Surprise him by joining him

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Registered: 09-29-2004
Surprise him by joining him
Wed, 09-29-2004 - 7:46pm
honestly..you know your partner enjoys x rated entertainment. But, you're first response is defence..you act as though this is a personal attack on you. I know i have been there when me and my fiance first got together. We've been together almost 5 years, and we're going to be married in July 05. I found him one time in our old house having fun solo in front of the comp. Its funny cause they have to do so much movement to pleasure themselves. Well! i was bewildered..i didn't know what to do. I couldn't breathe. Our son was only a month and a half. I felt offended that he didn't come to me for pleasure. I belittled him, made him feel ashamed. That was wrong of me. I appologised to him profusely later, and to the present. I didn't take into account that i had fun by myself before i met him. I like playgirl..it drives me crazy to look at pics of gorgeous men. Like men its all fantasy..everyone fantasises about sleeping with some one so beautiful. I personally would love to be with Peter North..(he's a porn actor). As i progressed into my personal path to pleasure..i started to learn enjoy movies, mags, and a play toy. Some times it gets crazy..and some times your partner just isn't there for the moment. Put it this way at least it isn't another women or man..Its mere fantasy..have fun. Have fun with him. You get one life.why not enjoy it like the italians do..i bet they can go allll day. take care. steph. northernrokz@hotmail.com