Swinging

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Registered: 08-16-2008
Swinging
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Sat, 08-16-2008 - 9:19am

Hi All,


I am new and really need your help. I met the man of my dreams - compatible in every way, accepted me in every way until he asked me to be his wife. Then he began pressuring me to "swing" with him. I dont want to give myself to another men sexually no

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Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: dulcinea12
Sat, 08-16-2008 - 10:42am

'He says our love will grow stronger if I swing. '


Is he kidding. Your love will not grow stronger if you don't want to have sex with other men.


Why is he your 'world'? What else is going on in your life?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: dulcinea12
Sat, 08-16-2008 - 12:32pm

Yes, to answer your question, for some men, monogamy is too boring.


But that's beside the point, IMO.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: dulcinea12
Sat, 08-16-2008 - 3:44pm

Welcome to the board dulcinea12,


'He says our love will grow stronger if I swing. '


That's a great line to try to manipulate you into doing what he wants you to do.

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Registered: 05-24-2008
In reply to: dulcinea12
Sat, 08-16-2008 - 4:31pm
I guess that you are correct in thinking that for some people (men and women) monogamy doesnt work.
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Registered: 03-06-2008
In reply to: dulcinea12
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 1:25am
Apparently, you are NOT compatible in every way.
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Registered: 04-16-2008
In reply to: dulcinea12
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 12:55am
Well with 50 million people in the US walking around with STDS. Yes, I just heard that on the news recently. Uh do you think this is really a good idea? You will both be putting yourself at a high
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Registered: 12-27-2004
In reply to: dulcinea12
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 3:20pm
Peaceyma has an excellent point, and if he is advocating swinging, I assume he's already been doing it.