teen sex

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Registered: 12-29-2007
teen sex
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Sat, 12-29-2007 - 7:02pm
we have had a relationship for two months..and we're really close,closer than any other couple i've known in 2 months.A week ago,we had sex.She told me she was a virgin and i made her feel ready.My question is,did we have sex too soon?Does this,in any way,mean that she won't be loyal as she is now?
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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: thppb1
Sat, 12-29-2007 - 7:21pm

Are you financially ready? Is she taking birth control and/or are you using condoms every time? Do you have a plan if she gets pregnant? Have you discussed your feelings on abortion/adoption with one another? Do you have the support of your parents or a close adult to you if something ever happened?

You're not ready to have sex unless you know all of the unromantic details. If you are having doubts about her loyalty then I think it may have been too soon. You should know another well enough to not doubt your feelings about one another before you take this step together. You may want to hold off from sex (or find other things to do for each other...) until you are more comfortable with one another emotionally.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: thppb1
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 5:50pm

I don't know how old you both are, but after two months of dating, usually sex is not too soon.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: thppb1
Mon, 12-31-2007 - 12:17pm

Welcome to the board thppb1,


If you are going to have sex, make sure that you are using condoms as well as asking her to get on birth control.


I don't see any reason why she won't be as loyal to you know.

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