I know we need compromise - and I know that I'm grasping at any little bit I can get from him specifically because I feel that I'm not getting any where need what I need.
It wasn't always like this with him and that is part of the issue - he's told me that I said I accepted him for who/what he was when we got married. The problem now is that he's no longer that person.
Lil_frustrated, I'm thinking that counselling is going to be a great idea for you.
I know we need compromise - and I know that I'm grasping at any little bit I can get from him specifically because I feel that I'm not getting any where need what I need.
It wasn't always like this with him and that is part of the issue - he's told me that I said I accepted him for who/what he was when we got married. The problem now is that he's no longer that person.
Welcome to the board lil_frustrated1,
Sounds like you want 'date' time with him but you aren't expressing it that way.
HI lil_frustrated!
I just wanted to add something based on my personal experience with my guy.