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is there still a chance?
| Wed, 11-21-2007 - 4:36pm |
It's the first time i have done something like this but i guess i'm hoping for a bit of female advice and views as i'm really confused with what i should do.
I had been together with my girlfriend for only about 3months but i was falling for her and know

Welcome to the board andrew1308,
You left the ball in her court so want and see if she contacts you back.
I have to say in my opinion though I think she was just playing you.
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Welcome to the board andrew1308,
I hate to say it, but yeah she's got issues.
Thanks so much for your reply.
I dont have any women around me who i can ask advice from and all my male friends well you can guess what they would say!.
I know it was far from perfect and may never work long term but i am still after 1 more chance and hoping for this day out to happen, so just wandering how i should behave dont want to be pushy but dont want to seem like i'm not keen.
How long is a reasonable amount of time to give her to contact me 1 week? 2 weeks? should i contact her?
If we meet should i ask her if we could start seeing each other again? and if so
I cant relate myself to the situation but as far as ' to contact ' goes ,i will say sometimes both people involved hope( or want) that the other one will/should contact and unfortunately both keep waiting and time goes by.Its never too early to contact but it can always be too late.
Because of her bad experiences with men, i guess, she will not contact you and if you really want to go ahead,keep her before you and contact her.you dont have to ask if you can start seeing again.You just have to stay normal ,probably the best way would be to talk or do things which you did in the initial days.It can be a reminder to her what it was and still can be.The decision will be her's because i am sure since she has 'men issues' she will be less trusting as well.not her fault tho.Also, in such cases ,it will be a long road for you to go barefeet on a hot boiling day.
It is a challenge but dont go ahead if you like challenges because if she really starts to come back to you and you for any reason back-off .........
Edited 11/22/2007 8:41 am ET by heissick