These differences worth breakingup over?
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These differences worth breakingup over?
| Sun, 03-23-2008 - 9:02pm |
Hi
This is my first time here , so sorry to just jump in with a problem , but it's just hurting so much . I need some help or insight.
We've been



If you two really want to make this work you absolutely need to attend premarital counseling.
But if only HALF the time things are great, why are you still together? Do you really want only HALF of the rest of your life to be happy?
You can't continue having fights and half-breaking-up during them every time. That's not a relationship that should be looking at marriage. You either stick together entirely and come to a solution or agree to disagree, or you break up once and for all. But every time either one of you says "I don't know if I want to be with you anymore!" it weakens your relationship. If you are going to be married then you simply cannot keep having these kinds of arguments. The fighting style you two have adopted (though it may be his to begin with) will eventually break you apart if you can't be more constructive.
Please make an appointment before booking the venue. Either way you will be very happy you went into the situation with your eyes open wider.
Welcome to the board galaxxy,
::Anyway in thses fights he said he didn't think we'd be happy together (we have disagreements over "very important issues" like me wanting to socialize and him not wanting it , or that I can't stand cold and he can't stand heat) and when I said despite all these differences I still want to get married he says that he doesn't and that's good for both of us.
Are these his real reasons or are these his 'excuses' when he's in panic mode?