THOUGHTS

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Mon, 10-29-2007 - 4:50pm

hi,


my child's father and I have been trying to

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In reply to: iejones63
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 4:58pm

Well, gosh--from your previous posts about this man, you know that he's not trustworthy so I'm not sure why you'd think that things have changed.

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In reply to: iejones63
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 5:05pm

Welcome back iejones63,


Given your past with him, you have every right to ask him this question. Also if you are having a sexual relationship with him than you deserve to know if he is sleeping with other people.

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In reply to: iejones63
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 5:20pm

hi,


nope haven't given up on monogamy!

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In reply to: iejones63
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 5:28pm

Even if you appear insecure, he has a lot of work to do to make up for past behavior.


Your previous posts for your review and for others:


I FEEL LIKE I'M BEING DEFEATED


UPDATE - FEEL LIKE DEFEAT


IS THERE A CODE TO BE CRACKED


I NEED ADVICE


What has he done to prove he's trustworthy?






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In reply to: iejones63
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 5:49pm

hi,


he has been spending alot more time w/the baby (alone).

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In reply to: iejones63
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 6:35pm

I'm going to share part of my history with my son's father.

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In reply to: iejones63
Mon, 10-29-2007 - 6:41pm

Yes, I'd say that you're hoping for something different than what is.


In all the things he's doing that you listed for Carrie, I'm not hearing anything about him having recognized that he needs to change his values and taking steps to do so (which IMO can only be done with counseling)--all the things he's doing sound very "surface" to me rather than deep.

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Registered: 09-14-2007
In reply to: iejones63
Tue, 10-30-2007 - 1:52am

I remember reading about your story a while back.