Given your past with him, you have every right to ask him this question. Also if you are having a sexual relationship with him than you deserve to know if he is sleeping with other people.
Yes, I'd say that you're hoping for something different than what is.
In all the things he's doing that you listed for Carrie, I'm not hearing anything about him having recognized that he needs to change his values and taking steps to do so (which IMO can only be done with counseling)--all the things he's doing sound very "surface" to me rather than deep.
Well, gosh--from your previous posts about this man, you know that he's not trustworthy so I'm not sure why you'd think that things have changed.
Welcome back iejones63,
Given your past with him, you have every right to ask him this question. Also if you are having a sexual relationship with him than you deserve to know if he is sleeping with other people.
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hi,
nope haven't given up on monogamy!
Even if you appear insecure, he has a lot of work to do to make up for past behavior.
Your previous posts for your review and for others:
I FEEL LIKE I'M BEING DEFEATED
UPDATE - FEEL LIKE DEFEAT
IS THERE A CODE TO BE CRACKED
I NEED ADVICE
What has he done to prove he's trustworthy?
hi,
he has been spending alot more time w/the baby (alone).
I'm going to share part of my history with my son's father.
Yes, I'd say that you're hoping for something different than what is.
In all the things he's doing that you listed for Carrie, I'm not hearing anything about him having recognized that he needs to change his values and taking steps to do so (which IMO can only be done with counseling)--all the things he's doing sound very "surface" to me rather than deep.
I remember reading about your story a while back.