Tips for getting back with your ex
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Tips for getting back with your ex
| Sat, 10-09-2004 - 12:11am |
I don't know how popular this posting will be....but for all of you girls who still love your ex boyfriend and are in contact with him or want to be even if you aren't, I wanted to share with you my experience on how I got my ex back. Basically, all I did was...I toughened up, met with him face to face one day and told him that I was strong enough to be friends with him and that I missed the friendship too much to let it go. At first he didn't really believe me that I could handle it, but he still had feelings there and wanted to see if I was telling the truth. So him and I casually dated for 2 months while doing our own thing on the side (dating, being with friends and whatnot), and, yes it was hard knowing that he was out there doing this his with others, but I did my thing too, and he realized that and started to come around again. He's back to being all about the relationship now....so the bottom line is, if we can suck up our tears and our worries, and show that we are strong and can survive without him-he may come around again! There is always hope......now of course I don't have any guarantees that this relationship will last...but at least I learned from this, that I can't fold up when a relationship ends. All you can do is revive your dignity and stand firm..(if you want to cry everyday....cry in your room, to your family, friends, write in a journal, whatever...just don't let HIM know how much you're hurting). Let him see the wonderful, strong, talented, and respectable woman you are-and he may come back. Even if he doesn't-at least you can feel good about yourself and say that he is missing out on the best thing he'd ever have!!!
