tips from the ladies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2007
tips from the ladies.
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Fri, 07-13-2007 - 11:51am
My girlfriend and I been together for a little over 5months. We had arguments and I think thats pretty normal. Well a couple days ago she was out with her friend and I called while they were eating so she said she'll call me back but she never call till she got home. Then I ask how come you didnt call like you said you would. she said " I dont know" (something like this happened before where I told her that. Then she got upset.) I'm thinking to myself if she made a deal out of it then I should be a bit upset about it also, so that she doesnt think its ok for her to do that. ok thats not the problem. the problem is ever time I get mad/upset she turns around at get mad/upset at me. (make it seems as if I done something) so its almost like I could never get mad/upset...
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 2:19pm

She was out with her friend, who deserved her time and attention while they were together. It would have been rude if she called you to have a conversation in the middle of hanging out with her. What's so wrong of her to call you back when she got home and she wasn't busy?

I truly don't understand why you're upset over this.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 2:50pm
I agree wth the Egg--"I'll call you back," means when the activity with her friend is over, not as soon as her mouth is empty.