tired of being "half" the perfect guy!

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Registered: 02-06-2008
tired of being "half" the perfect guy!
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Wed, 10-29-2008 - 3:12am
this happens to me all the time. I'm dating a girl and things are
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Registered: 06-05-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 7:54am

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Wed, 10-29-2008 - 8:14am

The secret here is to find out why you are attracting these kinds of women? It seems they may be reflecting some inner feelings you have about yourself? Perhaps you don't feel whole, or as if you have all the qualities necessary to make a woman happy? Build up your own self esteem, focus on all you have to give and how fortunate the women are to have you in their lives. When you feel better about yourself, you won't worry about making them love you, instead you won't want to be with someone who doesn't appreciate all that you are and have to give. You will send out a different vibration and attract a different situation to yourself.


Best wishes,

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 1:01pm

Welcome to the board cmaimone,


You've already gotten good advice.

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 7:36pm
Are you friends with these women before you date them?
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 9:10pm

I have two major guesses.

1) You aren't romantically challenging enough to these women that they feel an intense desire for you
2) You are attracted to a particular type of woman that is not physically interested in you

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Registered: 08-21-2007
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 12:33pm
I'd say you've yet to meet a woman who will find a combination of your particular face and body physically attractive. Nothing you can do but keep trying and hope to find yourself in the right place at the right time - that's all it is about.