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Tired of Giving
| Mon, 07-28-2008 - 3:42pm |
My bf and I have been together for three years next month. The relationship has been a dramatic one, filled with lots of ups and down. Through it all we're still here and claim to love each other very much. However, at times it doesn't seem like it.

Mystifying, you've just given a
You're right. He is having a hard time and probably doesn't feel very good about himself, but that's absolutely no excuse to be mean and to put you down. That is abusive behavior and there's no excuse for it under any condition. Absolutely none at all. Why are you accepting it? Why do all the work and get all the blame? It's his way of keeping you also feeling badly about yourself, so you won't see through this and won't be able to leave him. It's not your job to take care of him indefinitely. You've been great and now he has to take the ball, in all ways. Don't accept abuse from him or anyone. You deserve much better than that.
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Adding to my previous post.....
It's time for you to put your foot down.
Welcome to the board mystifying1,
While he is going through a bad time, taking it out on you is not appropriate.
I think you all for your helpful responses.