Too close too soon...any advice?

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Registered: 01-14-2004
Too close too soon...any advice?
Thu, 07-15-2004 - 4:48pm
About a week ago I was hanging out with a guy friend that I've known for about six months. I slept over because it was so late. Well, we ended up kissing and sleeping next to each other...nothing too racy. It was very sweet. Last night we did the same thing. I must add that most of the time we were talking and just hanging out. I think we really like each other and we both would like to see if we can be more than friends. I would really like for us to pace ourselves as far as the physical intimacy and don't plan to sleep over again, even though we don't have sex. At least not until we see where this goes. I hope I didn't mess up by staying the night so soon in the first place. How would you advise that I make sure that things stay cool between us despite our premature no sex sleepover? I want him to know that I didn't mean to be so close so soon without having him think I'm not interested. I want to bring it up to see what he's thinking, but I feel like maybe it's best just to keep cool and wait it out. The first few weeks are so crucial.

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