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Too different?
| Sun, 06-10-2007 - 12:22pm |
I have been dating my boyfriend for about two years now. Lately we have been fighting constantly. I really love and care about him but I'm not sure if we are just hurting eachother by staying together. I realize that we see the world differently from eachother. I just don't know if we see thing too differently to be together. He never takes anything seriously, he will make jokes even during very serious times. I feel like when we are in public that our relationship is almost like a comedy routine because he constantly needs the attention on him. He makes jokes at my expense and I know they are just jokes but they still hurt. When I try to tell him this he just tells me that I am too sensitive but I notice that in other couples the boyfriends wouldn't say half of the stuff he says to me. Is it fair to judge other relationships against my own when they are at different stages? Is he being too stubborn by not seeming to care about my feelings? Can someone change that about themselves or should I just end this? He just seems to be so pessimistic lately and it isn't changing. Someone help.

Hi pisces and welcome to the board,
His lack of sensitivity to you would wear me down.
he'd wear me down too.
he is a bully and he is not going to change.
the real question is what are you going to do about?!?!