Too Dramatic or not enough?!
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| Sat, 05-19-2007 - 6:22pm |
Ok,
Me and my boyfriend live in different states. Money is low and I had this summer to see him, and I haven't in a while(A WHILE). But it seems like I can't(something came up). I was broken up about it. I should be, right? I've not seen him in a LONG TIME, and I had a chance, and now I don't. "Don't get your hopes up" he told me. And I've totally killed my hopes.
But I'm acting sad(i couldn't help it?), and trying not to be angry at him or anyone else. when he goes,
"i'm just trying to change the subject because you're acting sad and it's annoying" And I just screamed(in my head) "WHAT?!"
I don't understand!! Am I being overly dramatic or is he just taking this too easily? I wanted so badly to yell at him, but I didn't and I just simmered there(we were txting eachother). He doesn't even seem like he wants to see me. I sound terribly selfish, but I don't know what to do.
Should I tell him how I feel? Ask him about it? Let it go? Get over it?
I'm sorry..
Thanks any(every)one.

I can't help but wonder if he's got a girlfriend over there.
But no matter what's going on with him, how do YOU feel about the LDR? Is it really what you want to be doing? Wouldn't you really prefer to have a boyfriend you can see regularly?
I'm gonna sound cheesy here:
I love the boy. The LDR is rough, but worth it. He's not like any man I've met. The guys I'm around, I just don't feel anything for, and don't have half the qualities of his.
But, I doubt he has another GF...But that did startle me. He talks about the women around him badly and I mean pretty badly. But I don't know...He's very loyal. I'm afraid if I ask him I'll hurt his feelings.
Help? Again? heh, I'm a mess, huh?
He might be a great guy, but if he doesn't care whether or not you're around....
Hello prettifyplz and welcome to the board,
I think it's normal for you to feel disappointed and for you to want him to match the same feeling and the same intensity.