Too Much, Too Fast?

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Registered: 09-02-2007
Too Much, Too Fast?
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Mon, 11-05-2007 - 5:05pm
My fiance and I met about a year and a half ago. One month later, after we're already smitten with each other, he comes for a visit and starts looking for jobs. From that point on he lives at my apartment and then I basically live at his once he finally gets one. He loses his job and gets another. He has to leave his apartment for health reasons, and gets another. We then planned on moving in together but right before signing the lease we find out he has cancer and I am pregnant. He is fine now, and we have
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 5:22pm

Welcome to the board canadian_kat,


First I just have to say that your bf has some nerve inviting women he met on the internet who he knows like him to come and stay at your house. This shows a complete lack of respect for you and your relationship.


You wrote "looking at what I wrote, I feel the relationship is already over.." and I have to say that I agree with you. He isn't showing any kind of desire to have a relationship with you.


I think you and your daughter would be better off by yourselves. Just make sure to take him to court and get child support.


Good luck to you. You deserve better than this.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 5:23pm

Welcome to the board canadian_kat,


::and two of them have admitted to being in love with him. He has now invited them to come visit us and stay at our apartment, and one has accepted!


::When I ask to have sex, if he is talking to them, he makes me wait. He won't let me see any of the chats or emails, he gets mad if I ask about them, but swears he isn't interested in them romantically, that is he just a nice guy.


WHAT?

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Registered: 11-06-2007
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 6:55pm

This is not right.

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