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Too sensitive
| Mon, 02-02-2004 - 11:46am |
Hi everyone,
My bf and I have been together for a year. We are both divorced and are very honest w/ each other. However he did lie to me once in the beginning of our relationship. He wanted to be friends w/ a girl that was hot, he told her about me but she wanted a relationship w/ him and he said sorry and ended it. Its something that if I didnt find out on my own it would have never effected us. Sometimes knowing hurts more than not knowing.
Anyway that was over 7 months ago. Since then our relationship has been good. I believe sometimes you need to get through something in a relationship to make sure he/she is the one.
But for some reason I cant get over his moods. Ya know when your guy isnt giving you 100% attention I feel he's falling out of love w/ me. I'm always thinking and over analyzing the relationship. He knows how I feel I dont think a day goes by that I dont mention something about how I feel. I'm so negative. He's happy and in love with me he shows it, says it etc. I think he's at a loss of what to do. I just want to feel happy and safe even when he's in a "mood". Its not a bad mood he's just not giving me his undivided attention. Which I cant understand why I need that so much. I love him but I'm so tired of the anxiety and the worrying. I have no support from my friends since what he did in the beginning of the relationship has made them not like or trust him. And when I go to them they dont know why I'm w/ him. Which makes me more upset. I feel like I'm loosing my mind. I just want to enjoy this.
My bf and I have been together for a year. We are both divorced and are very honest w/ each other. However he did lie to me once in the beginning of our relationship. He wanted to be friends w/ a girl that was hot, he told her about me but she wanted a relationship w/ him and he said sorry and ended it. Its something that if I didnt find out on my own it would have never effected us. Sometimes knowing hurts more than not knowing.
Anyway that was over 7 months ago. Since then our relationship has been good. I believe sometimes you need to get through something in a relationship to make sure he/she is the one.
But for some reason I cant get over his moods. Ya know when your guy isnt giving you 100% attention I feel he's falling out of love w/ me. I'm always thinking and over analyzing the relationship. He knows how I feel I dont think a day goes by that I dont mention something about how I feel. I'm so negative. He's happy and in love with me he shows it, says it etc. I think he's at a loss of what to do. I just want to feel happy and safe even when he's in a "mood". Its not a bad mood he's just not giving me his undivided attention. Which I cant understand why I need that so much. I love him but I'm so tired of the anxiety and the worrying. I have no support from my friends since what he did in the beginning of the relationship has made them not like or trust him. And when I go to them they dont know why I'm w/ him. Which makes me more upset. I feel like I'm loosing my mind. I just want to enjoy this.
Thanks for listening
Love
Helene

I remember your posts on another board, but what I can't remember is, are you (still) in counseling?
Thanks again
Helene
Hmm...personally, I would do whatever it takes to get back into counseling.
Why do you think she did that?