Too suspicious for my own good (Update)
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|Fri, 11-01-2013 - 9:41am|
Thank you to all of you who have commented on the, "Too suspicious for my own good" post. After having read the comments, I agreed and thought I was just being too plain silly. It was a bad week, and to someone who mentioned that I had too much time on my hands you're right. I do, I am a stay-at-home mom and I'm home most of the time (due to transportation issues). I do tend to sit here and think way too much.
But.................. Something else has come up and I can't help but think something's amiss. It's probably just my extreme paranoia issue, but I just want to talk about it. I hope someone will chime in.
Within the past month, my fiance has been acting differently. He's more quiet than usual and he almost has this "guilty" look on his face all the time. He says that nothing's been wrong. A couple of weeks ago, he came home for lunch and talked about his co-workers. One worker had mentioned speaking to the fairly new employee in their office (as of July/August, another woman) and found out about her age. I guess this was surprising news to all, as she looked much younger than her age (they all thought early 30's though she stated early 40's). I was aware of the new employee for a while and didn't think anything of it. But then, my fiance went on to say that this office worker, since the day she started working there apparently wears dresses every-single-day, without fail. (Why my fiance is talking about this woman was strange to me, but okay). Honestly, I was starting to feel awkward, and then he had to say it, the icing on the cake, "She's a nice looking lady for her age." Still, I grit my teeth and went along with it and didn't say anything.
I think my fiance struck up a conversation with her, not another co-worker, and found out about the age and I'm sure that wasn't all of the details. It could've been innocent chatting, but again, I am a paranoid person. Not to mention, his track record with me from the past isn't too good. Let's just say the "office lady" would've been his type of woman he would've gotten in trouble with in the past. I really don't want to delve too much into the past.
I also can't help but think back to the whiskey he took to work (as mentioned in my previous post) now thinking it wasn't given to said co-worker, but maybe the woman in the office instead?
So I'm here again and still being paranoid, maybe. Do you think my fiance's up to something or I'm just being an idiot? I don't have anyone else to talk to so here is my only place.