Trapped in the friendship zone
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Trapped in the friendship zone
| Wed, 08-25-2004 - 9:14pm |
I'm in love with someone. We are both in college and our early 20's, and i met him about 6 or 7 months ago at work. We clicked intstantly, and even though our job doesnt really bring us together often, we choose to see eachother regularly, almost daily, either at work or outside of work. In the beginning, I fought my feelings for him but now, as we get closer, I can't fight it anymore. I'm crazy about him. I have no idea how he feels about me, and I do my best not to let him see how much I care. My wishful thinking tells me he feels the same way, and he has told me before, on many occasions that he has trouble making the first move on a girl. Is that a hint? Does he want me to make a move? All i ever do (stupidly) is tell him that he needs to be more brave and call girls that he's interested in. He has, with my encouragement, a couple times, but he usually ends up ending it with that phonecall saying "she was a mumbler on the phone," I dont know what to think! Help me please! I'm falling for him more and more every day, and I'm worried that I'll lose my chance. How do i know if he feels the same. What should I do.

I think you are in the zone. I think that he may see you as more of a girl-friend than a girlfriend.... asking girl advice can be either a hint or question... Dont assume you know! How do you expect him to know how you feel if you don't tell him. c'mon the worst he can say is "you are mumbler on the phone" lol, But really I am also in my 20's, in college, so I know how you feel. My bf always assumes, I always assume and that causes missed oppertunities. More than likely if he is making an effort to see you other than the occassional office bump in than he likes you. But don't think, ASK ALREADY!
-Janelle
p.s. let me know how things go.
mattysbabylove@yahoo.com
good luck
-Janelle
mattysbabylove@yahoo.com