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truly happy?
| Mon, 01-05-2004 - 10:58pm |
My problem is not near as dire as many of the post. Yet I truly desire some honest oppinions. I met Brian when I was 16 he was 21. Brian pushed me away for years and being young and obsessive I finally got my proposal out of him. We were married, built a home then planned for our child. Logan is now 4, I'm 28. I love Brian dearly but oh lord, could we be any different? He's an ironworker whos obsessed with golf, tv and work. I love intelectual debates, interest include world religions, cooking and moral debates. The only true thing he holds to is 'breast implants are great.' (by the way I won't get one). He on more than one occasion has found a way to belittle my contributions to our household. I have worked off and on in various fields throughout the years. But have been the desire of a few corporate head hunters. I have mortgage, real estate inurance and experience in construction. Somehow my husband who is zoning on tv as we speak seems to think that I should be oh so lucky to have landed him. I have many grudges I have tried steadfast to let go of. He did cocaine throughout my pregnancy and has been somewhat of a emotional, intellectual flake. So how did we get this far. He's sweet, funny and in general a really nice guy. BUT THAT'S IT. Logan in just as beautiful as his father. But good lord. Brian is anything but a partner, and won't lift a single finger around our home. (garbage, garage, dog, anything a guy usually does!) If anyone has some advice. 'Besides have you tried talking to him'. When I do, he pretends to be receptive just to reap the intimate benefits of sex. The next morning he's the same thing all over. He is truly pre-occupied with his own interest (golf), and #1 priority is him.(and golf).He provides well. But I grew up poor and have never believed money to buy happiness (contentment,love or a family!!). P.S./I'm not exzagerating we're expecting 6" of snow and he's golfed two out of the last three days!:)

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