Trust broken/ naked pictures folder

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anonymous user
Registered: 12-31-1969
Trust broken/ naked pictures folder
Fri, 08-10-2012 - 7:31pm
How would you feel if you found a folder in your husband/wives email that contained several pictures of naked woman/men. Several of them being pictures of an ex your partner still talks with.
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 08-11-2012 - 2:16am
If him having them makes you feel hurt or insecure then he should get rid of them. And if he's seriously committed to you and cares enough about your feelings he would.
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Registered: 03-28-2011
Fri, 08-10-2012 - 11:51pm
I went tthru this with my husband. It was upsetting to me. He finally got rid of them. I'm always worrying if he still has them hidden somewhere, but as far as I know he don't. It has been a long hard road.
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 08-10-2012 - 7:44pm

I would be very upset--I wouldn't be upset if a guy were looking at general naked pics of unknown people (a/k/a Playboy) just for that reason--it's a fantasy & he will never meet them, but not someone he actually knew.