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Trust Issue
| Wed, 05-12-2004 - 5:15pm |
I've posted on here before about my husband having a 4 yr. secret relationship (friendship) only or so he claims with a women across the country. Since then she still will only email him at work. This really bothers me but he says he can't make her email him at home. Most of my friends tell me that if its only a friendship I need to just get over it and let it go.
I just have a gut feeling that won't let me. I've thought about getting the spyware software to see what he's doing online and maybe be able to read his work email that he reads at home.
I just worry that he will find out and flip out about me not trusting him.
Any opionions on this?
Thanks
I just have a gut feeling that won't let me. I've thought about getting the spyware software to see what he's doing online and maybe be able to read his work email that he reads at home.
I just worry that he will find out and flip out about me not trusting him.
Any opionions on this?
Thanks

Carrie
does check his work email from home so there is no sense in that. He will not email a copy
to me, because in his opionion its not my business.
And I suppose I don't feel I have a right to ask to read his email.
In a nutshell, this is the problem:
because in his opionion its not my business
You are his wife, but it's not your business if he's having an emotional affair, bonded emotionally to another woman. Geez, so if you had a long-term email friendship with a male, he wouldn't care that you were keeping it from him or that you were bonded emotionally and sharing intimate details of your life with another man?
Sorry you have to go through this.
Carrie
-amy- "CL-fiesty"