The trust issue

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Registered: 01-07-2004
The trust issue
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Wed, 01-07-2004 - 2:21pm
Recently my boyfriend and I have fallen into some hard times. His constant jealousy has caused us a lot of trust issues, and in the past I've continuously lost it through lies. I need to have trust in our relationship, but I was wondering if there's any other way I could prove his trust, accompanied by telling the truth.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2003
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 3:32pm
If he is a jealous person then changiong that might be like trying to change part of his personality. If you have not given him any reason to wonder what you are doing when you aren't with him then you have to realize that this is his problem. If he can take responsibility and try to fix the issue, then great. If he continues to blame you for his problem then it might be time to leave.

Does he get angry or hurt you? Does he try to control you?