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Trust issues
| Tue, 12-30-2003 - 5:39pm |
My boyfriend and i have been together almost a year and a half. About three months ago i came across an email that he had sent to another woman from germany on a porn/personals web site. He asked for more pictures of her and said things like she was "stunning" and that he couldnt wait to talk to her. After confronting him he told me that he was surfing porn sites and came across her picture and wanted to get naked photos to use as stimulation for masturbating. He clamed that all the flattering language was B.S to get her to send him some. After taking some time to think about the situation i contacted him and we decided to stay together. The problem is that I feel angry because he has caused me pain and yet he feels none. I am the one struggling with self esteem issues, trust issues and insecurities, he is perfectly happy. I feel resentment towards him and i have withdrawn emotionally from the relationship. He wants to be with me and says that he will do anything i need him to. I believe he made an immature stupid decision, he is only 21 and i am his first serious girlfriend. I would like to try to work this out but i dont know where to begin. Please help

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Carrie
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