trust is not my best subject
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trust is not my best subject
| Wed, 05-28-2008 - 10:10am |
okay here is it in a short. My boyfriend of 9 years is leaving to go to NY next week and stupid me read his emails. He emailed 2 women that he went to school with stating that they should hook up and have a beer and basically gather a bunch together well one emailed back stating she had gotten divorced and even emailed him her address and cell number. This paticular one is one he was going to meet up with 9 years ago and try to start a relationship and didnt cause he met me. he told me this when we first met. He has stated to me that he loves me and wants to stay and build a rest of our life together relationship. Trust is not easy for me at all and you would think after 9 years I owuld be able to trust him. He wrote her

Hi,
Here's your previous post: can not satify anyway I go and notsexual
::Has not shown any signs of ever cheating on mebut my concern is should I be nervous about him while he is up there?
I would say if he's not given you signs that's a good thing. On the other hand - either you trust him or you don't. He's going to do or not do what he wants regardless of whether or not you are concerned.
There is trust and then there is apprehension due to circumstances that dont feel right.