Trusting Her

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Registered: 05-14-2007
Trusting Her
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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 11:01am
Hi well iv been marreid for 6yrs in 2004 i cought my wife speaking to someone else but she said nothing never happend since then iv been dought ful in her words years pass by and she parties with her freinds but tatolly blows me off when i say can i go with uses. Her cell phone is off limits to me shes always on it and never lives it where i could get it. Her myspace is off limits to me two! She acts like she hiding something i ask her and she states its only freinds who she talks to. I fell like theres somthing going on she wants me to trust her but how could i?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: jorneg
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 12:27pm

Welcome to the board jorneg,


It does sound like she's hiding something, namely a relationship that she calls a *friend*.

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Registered: 05-14-2007
In reply to: jorneg
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 12:58pm
I feel u there but its her texting all day long no matter where were at! And the myspace allways hiding it am not even on her freinds list and only pictures of her freinds at clubs. And for clubing she goes 3 to 4 times montly coming home at 4in the morning I question it and she says get of her back and stop stalking her in what she does. but i say why u give me the resone to do so! And the sex sex has slow down know. Know i only get it when she tends to go out i guess to soften me up befor the week so i wooldnt fight to much!!! Am lost and feel not wanted anymore, mostly desrespected.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: jorneg
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 1:20pm
She has an entire second life that does not include you, sorry.




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Registered: 05-14-2007
In reply to: jorneg
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 1:43pm
Thats how i feel she have a secound life and iv tryed to speak to her and saying we may need some counsle she says am crazy and nothing changes am in a brink of just ether letting her run all over me or just letting her go! If i play her game all it does is hurt me more, i have a daughter with her and it will hurt to see this happen. (Any ideas)
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: jorneg
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 1:48pm
If she will go to counseling, go.
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In reply to: jorneg
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 2:06pm
Thank!!! youve been very helpful.