Try to work things out???? HELP
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|Fri, 03-09-2012 - 10:19pm|
Ok so my husband asked for a divorce back in NOV a month after we had our 2nd baby. It turned out he started seeing somebody else shortly after our baby was born. He was in the army and we were living in El Paso and i moved back May of 2011 because there were too many cockroaches and he was supposed to be getting out of the army in July but since the army took longer than planned he didnt get out until the middle of Nov. He was here for 3 weeks back at the end of Sept when we had our baby. He left back to El Paso to finish his army stuff Oct 16th , and we left on good terms happy for him to be getting out of the army and to finally spend time as a family and a normal life, he was talking about buying a bigger house and another car too. Then Nov 3rd he said he wanted a divorce, i was totally blind sided! He has not been back since( stayed in texas) Now last week he informed me he wants to come up and visit. He is still with the same girl and living with her. Lately he has been really nice to me listening and saying he is always willing to talk and that he wants me to come with him when he comes to visit the kids. So I am starting to miss him a lot again. I was doing good at trying to get over him but now I think I want to work things out? I am not sure? I really miss him and miss my family we have been together since Feb 2005. I mean is it good to try and work things out? Can you really just be over your wife and family that fast? Is it a phase? I wanted to justify it that it was a form of PTSD and for him to have respondsibilities at home and get out of the army was a lot to take in.