Unbreakable patterns?

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Registered: 03-27-2008
Unbreakable patterns?
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Thu, 03-27-2008 - 11:34pm

Hi all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2008
Fri, 03-28-2008 - 10:03am
Sorry...wanted to clarify one thing in my post above.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 03-28-2008 - 11:29am

Welcome to the board srtex,


Maybe should individual counseling would be helpful for you. Have you talked to your current counseling about how what your husband is saying is making you feel.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 03-28-2008 - 12:42pm

Welcome to the board srtex,.


I agree that you should also be going to individual counseling. There are ways to rebuild trust and fall in love again in a relationship, but it seems that your husband really isn't into it 100% from what you've written.


If you keep the focus on you, let your behavior speak for you, he might come around.


Reading material to consider:


Relationship Rescue, Phil McGraw
Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman


Have you seen The Secret (or read it)? I highly recommend it.