undecided

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Registered: 02-10-2006
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Thu, 04-17-2008 - 4:19pm

Hi, everyone,


I need your advice on how to deal with this guy I am seeing and his ex-girlfriend.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: sherri2006
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 8:42pm

Hi Sheri (that's my name too!),


Unless he's calling and telling you that she's out of his life for good, I don't see that keeping in touch with him is a good thing for you.


I wouldn't give him any set amount of time--I'd just ask him to not call me until that's taken care of, and in the meantime start moving on.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: sherri2006
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 11:57am

Welcome to the board sherri2006,


I think she is using him too. I think he knows it too, but at this point he feels it is easier to just give her what she wants so he doesn't have to deal with her crap.


I agree with Sherri's advice. I would stay away until you know that she is out of his life for good.

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Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: sherri2006
Sun, 04-20-2008 - 1:59pm
He is not emotionally available to you at this point.