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|Fri, 06-06-2003 - 1:49am|
My girlfriend and I have come to a stand off. A male friend of hers that she has known for about 4 months and I got in to a petty argument about something he accussed me of doing . It created alot of arguments and tension between my girlfriend and I. I have never personally met this guy. In an effort to resolve the situation I called him up to try resolve this petty argument. He was very defensive and began to insult me, we ended the call on a bad note. I was very angry and told my girl friend to pick me or him, and that I would never feel comfortable with this guy as one of her friends. She said that is very unfare and felt it was being controling and would not make a choice. I felt may be it was wrong for me to ask her to chose and did not want to lose her over such a petty thing and we agreed to compromise. One night we were out and he had called and asked her over, she told him she was out with me and if it was ok with him I did not have a problem coming over and that I would like to be friends, he did not want me coming over and obviously does not want to be friends. I told her that is my last effort at resolving this, and that I don't believe two people can have a good relationship if there are friends that don't respect the relationship. I guess what I am asking is under the circumstances was it wrong for me to ask her to chose betwwen our relationship and his friendship, and can there be a good relationship with this kind of friend involved.