unsure

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Registered: 11-13-2006
unsure
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Thu, 06-28-2007 - 4:27am
I have been flirting with the guy I like (who I also work with) and he says in front of are co workers that we are going to get married and have 11 kids and I agree with him he says he likes me and he asks if I like him and I have told him I do BUT I have this feeling he doesn't like me the way I like him he will often give me a kiss on the cheek and says I love you do you love me and I don't know what to say so I just say yes and he asks if I could give him a kiss and I tell him no and then he kind of gets mad or frustrated or upset and walks off then he later says if you like me why can't you give me a kiss and I tell him no or your crazy then one timw I just told him I would but we were around co workers and he understood I wouldn't kiss him in front of anyone
then and a week ago I was dressed up really nice and he asked me in private if I wanted to come over to his apartment because no one was there and that got me nervous so I kinda giggled and said no
then 4 days ago a guy at my work told another co worker to say something to him and it was in spainish and she didn't know what she said and he I guess asked her to sleep with him or something and she said no and he got mad and when she told me this I just casually went up to him and asked if he was mad at her and he said no and he didn't seems mad so I don't know if he was joking with her
when she told me this another girl was there and she said yea well I heard he would sleep with anyone fat, short, buck teeth or whatever
Theres another girl at my work who waits for him after work and I have seen her stay in her car right by his and wait for him but I haven't seen anything after that and a couple of my co workers and manager think that she likes him but she says no and I have just told people I like him as a friend
so how do I tell if he likes me and if he likes those girls or something And HOW can I get him to ask me to go to the movies, or dinner or something
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: sloan05
Thu, 06-28-2007 - 1:20pm

Welcome to the board sloan05,


Sounds like this guy is collecting girls and loves to flirt and carry on. Steer clear is my advice, as there are too many other people in the picture.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: sloan05
Thu, 06-28-2007 - 5:02pm

First of all, yes, I agree with the other poster on all points - especially the no punctuation and no capital letters thing - it gave me a headache.


But also, this guy sounds like a flirt and like he has no intentions of getting too serious about anyone.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: sloan05
Fri, 06-29-2007 - 2:07pm

This guy sounds like a player, someone who is toying with women, playing games, flirting, just wants to have some fun or get them to bed. If he wanted to take you to the movies or really be involved in a relationship with you, he would have by now. There is nothing you can do. It's not you, it's him. He's just having fantasies. Forget about him. Pay no attention. Find someone who is real.