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| Sun, 04-15-2007 - 6:18am |
Me and my bf of about a month and a half have both agreed that we have an amazing connection unlike anyone else we have been with before. We have never had any problems together so far and just enjoy every moment of each other. He kind of pushed the relationship to where it is now which may have been quick because he was in a 4 year relationship before me and only broke up with her about 2-3 months before we got together. But he pushed for the exclusiveness and stressed how commited he is to me. He even suggested we go away during the summer.
Only about a few days ago i noticed something change. He was more quiet with me and his sweet texts disappeared. So i questioned him on it. He finally said that "he just doesn't know", "things aren't going as he had planned" "he thought he was ready for a relationship but now hes not sure" "maybe we moved too fast." ??!?!?!!?
I have no idea where this came from and he doesnt have any answer for me but, "i don't know...its me." ugh! He doesn't want to break up, just wants to see where it goes. When i saw him again everythings seemed fine, but i just feel things are off and its hurting me that i dont know why and whats happening. I feel like im on pins and needles now not knowing whats going on and if things will last when there has been nothing that happened that it should end. What do you think? What can i do? Ive never felt anything like this with anyone and dont want to lose him. Theres no reason for me to lose him. How can i get him to tell me whats going on without pushing him away?

Welcome to the board snakegoddess,
He's feeling this way after about 6 weeks of being with you. This part is usually part of a longer honeymoon stage, so my guess is that he wasn't really for a relationship when he hooked up with you.