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Registered: 02-12-2012
Unsure
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Sun, 02-12-2012 - 11:48pm

I have been in a relationship for 10 years not all of them good but still in them. we went through a falling out and didnt have contact for a couple of weeks last year then decided to try to make things work. about a month later it came out that he had been "talking with another woman.( he works with her) He told me it was over and we went on from there. Things never felt right., whole

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Registered: 02-12-2012
In reply to: tee05261
Wed, 02-15-2012 - 10:41am

Wow

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Registered: 04-16-2008
In reply to: tee05261
Wed, 02-15-2012 - 1:59pm
It's not that people want to be harsh or judge anyone. It's just that you are getting honest opinions from people that are coming from a neutral camp and have no emotional involvement in the situation. They are therefore going to see this very differently than the poster who is emotionally involved in the situation, and also are often speaking from their own experiences in life and see the same patterns in the OP relationships they themselves have been thru and learned from. Therefore you are often times not going to hear what you want to hear, but what they see as the reality of the situation. You can always sift thru and disregard info you don't agree with.
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Registered: 12-27-2004
In reply to: tee05261
Wed, 02-15-2012 - 2:12pm

"I thought when I came here that there was an actual Dr. here that would offer some insight, but am now seeing that it is just a bunch of people that would prefer to judge me and my situation and not actually help but critisize me."

We all wonder what has become of Dr. Shoshanna, because she hasn't been here for a long time--more than a year, I think.

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Registered: 05-20-2009
In reply to: tee05261
Thu, 02-16-2012 - 12:10am

I'm sorry you consider it "harsh" when outsiders point out things that you're too close to, and don't see......or try to make excuses for.

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