Update

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2003
Update
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Tue, 01-13-2004 - 4:28pm
Well, yesterday he asked me for a divorce. Actually he didn;t ask he just told me that's what he wants. He almost packed his stuff last night, I think all the talking we have been doing is doing more harm than good. He did tell me this morning that he would be home tonight but he has started sleeping in the basement as of last night. Needless to say I was awake most of the night. I never have slept well when he's gone. Not even my sleeping pills that the Dr gave me are helping.

On a good note, I was talking to a friend today. She said my situation sounds like exactly what she and her H went thru a couple of years ago. The first thing she said was Mid life crisis. Anyway, she and her H are still together, so I am not about to give up hope. She and are are going to lunch together tomorrow so hopefully she can give me some 1st hand advice.

Keep praying for us please. And thanks to all those who offered support and advise to my original post. I will try to keep you updated as I can.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-31-2003
In reply to: kansasmomma
Wed, 01-14-2004 - 1:17am
Hey- It's good to hear you have a friend to lean on, especially someone who has been in the same situation before. Friends mean so much in a time like this. I hope you get some good insight and good you time with your friend. Yes, My prayers are with you!

Be Strong!

Ab25