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Update and Thank You all
| Tue, 09-28-2004 - 12:18pm |
Hey, it's me (the girl who asked for MAJOR HELP/ADVICE a little while ago). Thank you once again to all of you who posted replies to me. Just wanted to give an update - I did send him a letter telling him that I have no choice but to move on. I also explained that I think if two people love each other, they will find the time to spend together. Just basically told him how I felt and asked him what he wanted. I don't know if he will ever talk or write to me back - I did tell him he did have that option if he wanted, yet he does also know I will move on. A lot of you said that with the short amount of time we were together, it was probably a strong infatuation and not love and that all makes sense, it is just that I have NEVER felt so broken-hearted in my life. And there were signs such as living in walking distance to each other that we should be together. Also, we both had NEVER EVER felt the way we felt around each other with any one else. I really wish we could have talked through this break up rather then me give him a note. I just wish I knew why this happened? - I know - it is because we probably moved to fast and so on. It is just such a sad and horrible thing to happen to anybody and I guess I just need some thoughts and prayers to mend my very very broken heart. Thank you all for everything.

You did the only thing you could do. Now, at least you will have closure. It just sounds as though he is not ready for a committment now, and he isn't aware of how rare it is to find someone you can really connect with. Maybe he will someday, and maybe you will still be available. But don't count on it.
I will keep you in my prayers and I know you will find even more happiness in the future than you have lost with this romance.
Douri~