Update - Need a "real womens" advice
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| Mon, 05-24-2004 - 10:15pm |
She has been hanging around with a supposedly x-good friend of mine at the gym, trying to make me jelous?I seen it first hand tonite. She was in the hallway talking to him etc... . She was talking and flirting with him. Before she left, she went up to him and had a little chit chat, and she left. I dont know if this was the guy, i caught her with, since i couldnt really see his face. He was driving her car, with her in the passenger seat
I ignored her the whole time. She was hanging around my vicinity for the whole hour. I dont know why? I wasnt going to talk to her. She was looking at me from time to time, and one time, she got real close. I didnt budge. I held my ground and ignored her completely.
I honestly felt, she tried to get me to say something? She tried to make eye contact with me, but none from my end. This makes her look bad, because everyone in the gym knows we were together. Now she's seeing some other guy from the same gym, with me present. I just had a good time talking to other people and working out. I paid her no attention.
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Yes,you've done well, congratulations. It sounds as though she is trying to bait you, to make you jealous or to get into a power struggle of some kind. Let her go. Let her do what she wants. It is never wise to be in a relationship with someone who plays these kinds of games, and especially someone who is not faithful. Don't worry about how you look. You look fine. She is making a display of herself, let her. Pay not attention. Stay away from her. Move forward in your ilfe in a way that is healthy and constructive.
All good wishes.
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