Update on need serious advice...Bill

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Registered: 02-02-2008
Update on need serious advice...Bill
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Thu, 09-22-2011 - 10:33pm

Last Thursday I left a check on the table for my wife and told her 2 of the boys are at school, and i'll watch our 2 year old, now go to the courthouse and stop child support..................she never went..her excuse now? that she's not sure if were going to work out so she chose not to.............so i said fine then, i guess were not......ive hardly spoken 2 words to her since...I have an appointment with an attorney next Tuesday and Child support next wednesday....Remember i said i have her name on the lease agreement? I just thought about it today but i also have her signiture on our tax forms..see we filed joint last year....I told her i was done and that i'm going to do whatever it takes to stop this crap...she replied well i guess were done....theres more but want to get this posted.................Thanks to all who read this and give some advice....I honsetly figured shed be packed and gone with the boys but shes still here.....dont really know what shes doing....

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Thu, 09-22-2011 - 11:21pm

She might think you're bluffing........because you've let her get away with her crap for so long!

Don't tell her you're going to the lawyer till you talk to him, and find out what your rights are.

Is there a chance she'll take the kids and keep them from you?

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Fri, 09-23-2011 - 9:11am

sonny, the best advice will come from your attorney. You don't need relationship advice anymore, because the relationship is over... You need legal advice. I still think you need to collect all of the documentation you can that shows your children live under your roof. Make a copy of the joint tax return.

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Fri, 09-23-2011 - 11:40am

she is waiting for you to back down and give into her again.

Stand your ground, and be sure to let your attorney know everything.

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Fri, 09-23-2011 - 12:11pm

All 3 boys are ours together ages 9 5 and 3.. I figured she would leave because by child support enforcement agency , she has residential custody of the boys..by using her moms address.. so i figured she would be gone......thanks for your help