Update on need some serious advice from Bill
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|Fri, 10-14-2011 - 9:25pm|
Well I've contacted an attorney so it's just a matter of time until i can save up 2 grand to pay her...She said go to the courthouse and pick up a Pro-se divorce packet, but when i went up there today they said that they dont hand those out. That they had Dissolution Packets but that was only if both parties agreed on everything.....Well She has only let me see my 3 sons ages 9, 5, and 3, on monday and Wednesday this week for about 4.5 hours each..the attorney told me that if she didnt let me see the boys , that there was nothing i could do...She has residential custody of them..and to be as civil as i could...and thats why i will not allow just a dissolution..because there is no reason at all that ahe should have more power over the kids than I. That if this is her definition of joint custody, or shared parenting that it;'s wrong and thats why i told her i would fight her for my sons.....The attorney i spoke to also said that the 3 years she lived with me and continued to make me pay her child support?...that she wouldn't get into any trouble at all for it...that if anything i might get credit for it but she wouldn't get into any trouble........wow...i'm baffled........so i guess its legal......something is wrong with that....but i have to believe in my heart that i have a chance to get my kids....she wont agree on equal time with them..and i refuse to sit idley by and only see them a couple days a week, let her maintain control and act like its just fine...NOT ALL DADS ARE DEAD BEATS, AND SHAME ON ANYONE OR ANY SYSTEM THAT BABIES WOMEN AND GIVES THEM THEIR WAY..THERE ARE MEN IN THE WORLD WHO DESERVE JUST AS MUCH A RIGHT TO THEIR CHILDREN AS THEIR WIVES DO...MEN WHO LEAD GOOD LIVES, HAVE LOVED THEIR WIVES AND ARE WONDERFUL DADS...THAT JUST GET SCREWED BECAUSE OF LIES AND A SYSTEM THAT STILL FAVORS THE MOMS.....I've gotten to see my 3 sons for 8 hours this week....not enough.........