Used or Confused?

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Used or Confused?
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Thu, 02-12-2004 - 7:13pm
There's this guy that I've been flirting with for the past few weeks. Well, last Sunday we finally went out and had a really great time except when he brought up the fact several times that he's dating other people. I got the hint when he told me who it was and where they went. Well, the other day I heard that they're going to prom together, even after he told me he wanted to go with me...hello?! He told a bunch of people he really likes us both, and that he can't decide who he wants to be with. What am I?!

I got really mad at him after all this happened and did not make an effort AT ALL, as opposed to before, to start any kind of conversation with him. He kind of pouted for a while, but now he's trying to eat me up again! I mean heavy on the flirting and compliments!

I really like this guy, and I can't help but flirt back now when he flirts with me. But I don't want to lead myself on. Is he just using me or is he really confused about who he likes? If the latter, how can I convince him I really care about him?

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Sat, 02-14-2004 - 5:34pm
He knows I like him, but don't like the idea of him loving up on me one weekend, but on someone else the next. That's just weird to me. Maybe I'm just over-sensitive but that's where I stand. I'd like to think he kissed me because he really likes me, but that little voice in the back of my head keeps telling me that he's just a guy who's pimptastic and flirty. After he kissed me it was pretty late and I was about to break curfew so I told him I had to go. He said he'd call me tomorrow (today) even though I'm yet to hear from him. I guess we'll find out then.


After writing this post, I came back and read it again. It decided to add that I'm really not feeling him anymore. It's like after reading all these posts I'm beginning to realize that I don't like him anymore. I think right now I'm just curious to see where he stands in all of this. He's just one of those guys who'll never have a serious girlfriend. At least until she finds out about his ways.


Edited 2/14/2004 5:41:02 PM ET by sweetsoprano05

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