Very Confused

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Registered: 03-30-2011
Very Confused
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Mon, 07-04-2011 - 12:25am

I wasn't sure what board to post this on but here goes. I been with my bf for

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Registered: 09-25-2010
Mon, 07-04-2011 - 2:11am
Yes, if he is saying he is still scared. Tell him to grow up and then give you a call because you don't have time for scared little boys. Then go out and live your life! If he wants you, he will find you. Guys who know what they want are not scared to show it. The fact that he is still saying he is "scared" means you are in for an emotional roller coaster ride. Tell him that once he is over himself, then he can give you a call and if you are available then maaaaybe you will consider a date.
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Mon, 07-04-2011 - 7:16am

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Mon, 07-04-2011 - 12:33pm

I don't know what you're confused about, and in the end you answered your own question!

When a man says he's "scared"........that means he's not going to make a real commitment, and living together does NOT mean a real commitment.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 07-05-2011 - 2:26am
It is common for people just out of marriage still does not know who they are or what they want even thought they *think* they do. That is why I would not date anyone within a year after their divorce and not be their first boyfriend after that.

Now he is beginning to wake up. Move on and let him figure out how to be on his own (emotionally).

Mark
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Tue, 07-05-2011 - 8:44am

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Tue, 07-05-2011 - 10:10am

You need to follow your own instincts.

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Registered: 03-30-2011
Mon, 07-11-2011 - 12:31am

I guess my doubts where right. Im no longer confused he decided to go back to his Ex Wife. Its crazy she was horrible( cheated and very controlling)