want to believe him, but confused (long)
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want to believe him, but confused (long)
| Mon, 04-14-2008 - 1:48pm |
I really don't do a lot of these, but when I am about the point of breaking I need to vent. This may be long so I am pre-warning anyone who reads this! My husband and I have been married for a year, have a 10-month old, and just moved into our new place (a very busy/up and down kind of year.
So the other day while H was at work I was playing around on the computer and I went onto a website that he and I buy stuff from now and then, and we have an account on that page. But I did not remember the password and I knew

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Oh, sweetie, that is such a lame excuse.
CALA
Cala,
Oh goodness.
CALA
Well I just wanted to respond to everyone and say Thank You for all of your advice.
Last night after I had read most of these I sat down with my husband for dinner and pretty much just laid it on the table! I told him that although I really want to believe him, I really just would not understand until I had answers and if that meant I had to get software or computer people to come trace things on the computer then I would have to do that. And he was okay with it, cause he said he really wants me to do what ever I feel is necessary. And when I said something about one of the e-mails he said, what did it say? So I asked him, "that night when you came home and I showed you what I saw, didn't you sit down and read them?" and he said "no, I just deleted them and closed out the other sites you had in the window." So he never even read what I was accusing him of, which I know if someone was accusing me of something I would want to know. Well come to find out he (after I told him what I read) he said well "I am sorry cause I think if it was just asking for pictures it might have been me, but I never had any conversations with anyone or called or anything more than
Wow - pretty much the same thing happened to me.
::he said well "I am sorry cause I think if it was just asking for pictures it might have been me, but I never had any conversations with anyone or called or anything more than
In response to last couple of posts, the emails I found were from last Sept/Oct and that is when I had told him that I was not comfortable with the porn and etc and he did stop and when I checked his e-mails there really wasn't any except that crazy spam that hell I even get in my junk box. So really this all happened awhile ago, and I was just now finding out about it.And he knows that I find it inappropriate so that's why he got rid of it, plus I said you know soon your daughter will be able to play on the computer and do you want her to accidently open something like that? And I could tell by his face he had not thought about that and it put a different spin on it for him. I am not just droppping it and ignoring it and acting like he did nothing wrong.
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