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want to fix a mistake
| Sat, 02-14-2004 - 10:00pm |
I screwed up big-time with my girlfirend. We have had problems in the past and ahave decided its better to be friends but we always end up back together, usually after I make a mistake. This time we had just gotten back together and she had a doctors appointment because she thought she might be pregnant and I didn't go because I was too scared. I love her and she said she loved me, but now I don't know how she feels. It's been 4 weeks since it happened and I've spoken to her only twice and both times she has still been extremely angry at me. I don't know whether I should wait a bit longer till she contacts me or go and talk to her. This is my first relationship and I have trouble dealing with my emotions, which has caused us problems because she thinks that because I don't show lots of emotion I don't mean what I say. I realise I made a big mistake and am trying to fix it. I don't know what to say or do that can show her how sorry I am that I hurt her. If she doesn't want to be with me I'd still like to remain friends. What can I do to make her understand how sorry I am and is there any hope for us?
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| Sat, 02-14-2004 - 10:09pm |
Why not try writing your feelings down and giving that to her if you have trouble expressing them verbally? You seemed to do a pretty good job of it here in your post. Also, a word to the wise: only have protected sex. Neither one of you sound mature enough to be parents at this point in your lives. Don't make the same mistake twice. Good luck.
