want to meet man,but what do i do
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want to meet man,but what do i do
| Wed, 08-11-2004 - 1:15am |
i'm 50 & have had 2 failed marriages, over possessive, jealous, lyiers - i want to meet someone, but not to marry just someone to have a good time with. the problem is i'm a loner i keep to myself & have a real problem getting out there. when i do, it seems like i blend into the woodwork. it's hard for me to make friends (male or female) so any pointers out there.

Just because your 50 and had 2 failed marriages, does not mean that you cannot find a companion. However, being a loner is not a bad thing; because I am as well. But you do have to get out in order to meet people. I recommend going to places you like to go, to meet new people. I do not have many friends and sometimes I find it hard to make new ones, because I am not like everyone else and have different views on (what a good time is). Most people out there do everything, everyone else does; just to fit in. I find that I meet people, just by striking up a conversation anywhere I might be at the time; whether its the grocery store, book store, park....etc. Just try being more friendlier. You should also bring yourself out of the woodwork by, taking more time with your appearance; by maybee changing something in your style, that will give you a feeling of a new you! I also think that your 2 ex-marriages, left you feeling down and insecure; because you stated "failed marriages" Just because your marriages didn't work out, does not mean that all is lost. Sometimes people go through many relationships, before they find the right one. I strongly believe that all of us have that one right person out there, that is meant for us. Get out of your slump and start doing things that make you feel better about yourself. Start living! Keep your head up and don't search for a man. When you start searching, you start to loose focus on yourself. Just find and do things that make you happy and the right man will just pop up before you know it. Good luck to you and I hope that my opinion has helped.
Also, if there is a local ToastMasters in your area really helps with learning to talk in public, meeting people and being comfortable. Or take a college communications class.
Carrie
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Carrie