want to reconnect with my husband

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Registered: 10-31-2007
want to reconnect with my husband
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Mon, 12-31-2007 - 12:33pm
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Mon, 12-31-2007 - 1:17pm

Welcome to the board jessielynn2007,


Try going on a little vacation just the two of you. Or try going to dates together or doing things you used to do back when you first starting dating. Be creative.


Also try dressing up or playing games together.


And most important HAVE FUN!!

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Registered: 10-31-2007
Mon, 12-31-2007 - 8:46pm

Thank you so much, I talked to my husband about date night and he is all for it. I would love to go on vatation alone with him but we can't right now :(

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-01-2008 - 9:35am

You're very right when you say that a lack of sexual interest is not just a problem in the bedroom. It happens also when two people have grown to see each other simply as friends, when the excitement and romantic spark has not been tended to. It also happens when there are underlying feelings in the relationship that have not been expressed or worked through. Sometimes hidden resentments cause this as well. Sometimes we just see the other person as a buddy, and see ourselves as