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Wanto to go out
| Mon, 09-20-2004 - 3:51pm |
I have a husband who does not like to go out. I like to go out with my friend's twice a month. We go to a bar and I am home by 3:00 AM. My husband says this is not right. He calls me constantly while I am out and now he says he will leave if I come home at 3:00 AM and defy him. He is not my bass and I am not doing anything wrong while I am out. Who is right here? He says I can only stay out till 1:00
Thanks for your help.

Carrie
He's feeling insecure, and a lot of guys tend to be. Make sure he knows you love him, make him feel secure. If he's just one of those overprotective guys, then just put some extra effort into things and prove to him that he can trust you. Perhaps you can suggest a couple ways for him to keep busy, cuz it sounds like he constantly thinks of nothing but you. Tell him to go hang out with the guys, take up some hobbies, anything.
OR, if it's that big of a deal and it really bothers him inside that you come home late, then come home at 1. A 2-hour difference isn't that hard to work with. Perhaps you can just go through with this plan until he becomes more comfortable.
Best of luck..!